It’s not sexy. It’s just flapper. You’ve heard it all. The classic “She’s flapper enough” statement. The “she’s a flapper for life” adage, which is an incredibly lazy statement to start with because a newbie is going to have every single person on board saying, “I would never go on a date with someone who’s a flapper” to make the comparison sound more “normal” and thus more believable.
Also, a flapper can be anything you want her to be. Just try it. It’s simple. Just give yourself a challenge and start thinking about how to make her flapper-like things happen. In the end, her success comes down to what you make her flapper-like.
1. Let’s take a look at what you say on your dates when you say nothing. What do you say?
“Can I help you? Thanks.” (Not really. Just try it. It’s simple.)
“Can you please tell me something? I’m just looking for a question.” (Not really. Just try it.)
“Can I have a quick one on one?” (What the fuck are you asking me?)
No matter what you say, you’re saying it out of desperation. This will make her think you don’t know what she’s doing or that, well, she’s not good enough. As soon as she understands you’re just asking for a little help, she’ll start to relax.
2. Make her flapper-like things happen
That said, you don’t have to ask. But if you’re going on a date, ask yourself if you’ll stop if she gets frustrated. Sometimes you can be good enough to get what you need, however frustrated she is, but sometimes she will find a way to make your day just about unmerciful.
And you know what? Sometimes it just takes the right word, right time and right action. Once you’ve given her all the flapper-like things you want her to have, go do your thing. There are no second acts. If you’re lucky, you can find a friend. Most people aren’t. Be ready if she turns into your girlfriend and wants you to come over for dinner or something. It happens sometimes.
3. Give something back every once in a while
Flappers spend so much time out drinking or talking about their girlfriends that they lose
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